The Unfiltered Joy of Travelling Like You Belong
- Josphineatezybook
- Jul 22
- 2 min read
The Unfiltered Joy of Travelling Like You Belong: A Complete Guide

I’ll confess: I once treated cities like checklists. Louvre? Tick. Sagrada Família? Tick. A blur of queues and pixel-perfect photos, no memory of how Barcelona smelled at dawn. Last spring in Porto, I rebelled. I rented a peeling-wall flat in Bonfim – where laundry fluttered between buildings and neighbours bickered over bin days – and vowed to live, not sightsee.
The transformation began mundanely: scrolling Manchester airport parking deals at midnight. Choosing that reliable park-and-ride felt symbolic – no frills, just function. Landing in Porto, I ignored guidebooks. Instead, I:
● Haggled for sardines at Mercado do Bolhão while grannies side-eyed my Portuguese
● Rode the number 22 tram daily until the driver nodded like a regular
● Drank ginginha (sour cherry hooch) from chocolate cups in a alleyway tasca
Magic struck at 7am in Café Guarany. Eduardo, a retired tile-layer, slid into my booth. "Inglês?" he grunted, pushing pastel de nata across the table. For 30 minutes, we sketched maps on napkins – his arthritic finger tracing hidden azulejo courtyards and river viewpoints tourists miss. "You want my Porto?" he rasped. "Slow down."
So I did. I spent afternoons reading in Jardim do Morro as sunset gilded the Douro. Bought vinyl from a hole-in-wall shop playing fado crackles. Ate francesinha sandwiches in a workers’ caff where the cook scolded me for not dunking the chips in beer.
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The epiphany? Travelling "local" isn’t about ditching landmarks – it’s about letting a city’s rhythm rewrite yours. That £12 cheap airport parking deal bought more than a space; it bought the freedom to get deliciously, authentically lost.

You’ll know you’ve nailed it when:
● Waiters stop handing you menus in English
● You develop opinions about bin collection schedules
● Your best "souvenir" is a grocer knowing your coffee order
Skip the selfie sticks. Rent the flat with dodgy plumbing. Let Eduardo change your life.
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